"Let all bitterness and wroth and anger and clamour, and evil speaking. Be put away from you, with all malice" Eph 4:31

As Christian, we are meant to live a life free from malice evil speaking, anger etc. They must not be found among us as it is the world today. When somebody offends you, be the first to reach out  and don't be resentful, we must learn how to be kind to one another, tender hearted, and forgiving one another for Christ sake ( Eph 4:32 ). As God has forgiven us we must do likewise to others. May you find it in your heart to forgive others.